( I was trying to be polite)
as a token female gamer since the age of 7….
the "man-splaining" is going to make me vomit.
you all have good points (I do admit my eyes glazed over at one points so probably missed some details)
-I love my "degenerate art" too. And I love painting naked chicks. and dudes. not enough of those to paint, alas.
- misogyny is rampant in the gaming world (and the rest of the world)
-Oschmidt…you're coming off as extraordinarily creepy. "I watched unobtrusively from about 8 ft away and said nothing during the games." *shudder*
Your gentle, concerned misogyny is much more poisonous than any overt holes at the table. -Thee's responses were strident (enough to annoy Shandy)but are well and clearly stated and I, mostly, agree with him
-Dave… I slap upside the head with a rubber chicken. not for anything he's posted. Just 'cause.
there is so much more I could say
in the end
these are miniatures and games. they can reflect our ideas of the world and mire us in philosophical debates until the end of the universe.
but they are games”
"watching unobtrusively" was just one example of his creepy behaviour.
"the gentle, concerned misogyny" is infused throughout his writing
now.......
I've been informed that he's the same generation as my father in law.
My father in law has many MANY behaviors, attitudes and beliefs that drive me screaming up the wall. The unconscious misogyny is just one example
But, it's all "appropriate" to his and OSchmidt's generation
just as it's appropriate for me to be pissed off by it and shout it down when necessary
not that they'll change their minds but there is just a chance that they might THINK
rant over

